Live Your Life Guilt Free
YOU OR YOUR PARTNER HAVE DECIDED TO GO YOUR SEPARATE WAYS -
so Where do you go from here?
LETTING GO AND STEPPING INTO SELF CONFIDENCE
Divorce creates the partners all of a sudden being in a place of uncertainity as they learn to
Let Go and become responsible for all their own decisions, this can be a very scary, frightening experience, more often than not creating self doubt in their ability to succeed or get things done right.
ARE YOU EXPERIENCING
Anger, Frustration, Resentment, Guilt, Jealousy, Disappointment, Despair, Distrust, Disrespect, Depression, Feelings of loneliness, failure, regret, rebelliousness or just had enough ...............
WHAT DID I DO WRONG?There is an experience of the greiving, the guilt of what did I do wrong?, or the Blame - it was all their fault, The mind becomes full of many toxic thoughts that contaminate what was once a loving relationship and now there is so much criticism and blame that everything becomes very dirty, unresourceful and a place of distrust.
WHO ARE YOU BLAMING
......for things not working out?
How is the Blame game working for you?
Is it making you feel good?
so what is it you can do to stop blaming and start livng again?
ARE YOU CREATING HELL FOR YOURSELF, YOUR FAMILY or YOUR EX?You cannot forgive for what has happened and been decided, you feel like rubbish so why should he/she feel any better than I do?
I am going to make it as hard as I can for him/her? They are not going to have it easy - no way!!
How is this working for you?
Is this how you want to feel for the rest of your life?
We only get one go at life ........... start living and enjoying yours now ............ move on,
learn how to turn these toxic thoughts and games around so everyone is a winner.
Because of the contaminated communication between
yourself and your ex,creating long term mental
and emotional traumas and disorders.
Especially when there are children involved,
the welfare of them becomes critical as they experience the
warfare happening between their parents and this can have
long lasting detrimental and pychological effects.
The children have not asked for this to happen -
so why are you making them suffer for your bad choices?
Create and become excellent role models for your children,
so they do not have to experience the same treatment later on in their own lives.
Carefully recreate clear communication, reassure them
that there is respect for their other parent,
that it was a decision between you and your partner
and that they will always be special in your life.
They Learn How To Parent From Your Behaviour -
Is This How You Want Them To Parent Their Children?
You Will Only Suffer As Long As
Not To Change Things
If there has been a case of infedelity in the marriage, Trust becomes a big issue, so much so that 'all males' or 'all females' are bad and when this is taken into every day life, msitrust occurs on a regular basis, which creates fear, anxiety, depression. This also gets taken into the workplace, work becomes unproductive and everyone suffers. Not a good place to be.
Build your sense of power and create a new strong person with a healthy sense of self worth, creating your own safe a rewarding 'power zone' .
Discover the wonderful true authentic self you were born to be.
Access Your Own Personal Genius Within You.
|FORGIVENESS IS VITAL
it is not always easy to accept that you will forgive, forgiveness is not about giving the other person anything -
forgiveness is about freeing yourself
from the hurt, resentment, etc you have imprisoned yourself in being.
To Refuse to Forgive is to continue hurting yourself.
Keeping ‘Inner Monsters’ as a part of you and this requires Negative, self destructive energy.
Use Your Energy to Forgive and embrace the joys of life.
Is the only real prescription for the pain you feel over someone else’s behaviour.
The healing choice is yours to Make
is not something you do for someone else
It Is something you do for yourself
Give Yourself the gift of FORGIVENESS
YOU ARE NOT ON YOUR OWN
Unless You Choose To Be.
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